A sweet kind gesture, a warm smile, and a lil more attention and we gals fall flat on that cute guy we have always looked at from the corner of our eyes! But we gals, we better beware! Not always, these cute looking guys are “in love” no matter what they say and claim.
There is a very easy guide I have come up with, that shall surely help you distinguish between the guys you hand around with loves you or is it merely Time Pass. Watch your step dahlings, you might else end up being hurt.
This is what GUYS do in different phases i.e. Love and/or Time Pass:
Love: will call you with your name usually, unless in a very mushy mood
Time Pass: will never take you real name unless there is fight. From shona to baby to sweetie = all of it, is you!
Love: Limited respectful PDA
Time Pass: PDA knows no boundaries (ofcoz he doesn’t really care)
Love: would insist on meeting your friends, to know you more!
Time Pass: would insist on meeting your (female) friends only and would start to flirt with them instantly (esplly the pretty ones)
Love: would be interested in knowing everything you do through the day!
Time Pass: would be interested in knowing what you doing when you are talking and when the next meet can happen!
Love: he’d have a choice in seeing you in a certain attire / get up and shall love some of them more than the others
Time Pass: he’d like everything you wear and would fanatically like every picture you put up on FB, no matter however unlikable it is!
Love: would want to hear your voice once a day at least, no matter how hectic the day!
Time Pass: would be around only when they need someone to talk to!
Love: would be on his toes to make you meet his family (At least some members, if not all at a time)
Time Pass: you wouldn’t even know his family details – meeting is a distant dream (yours) nightmare (his)
Love: would love to talk to you, listen to you, and spend quality time with you
Time Pass: would only love being hanky-panky around you
Love: physical intimacy comes along naturally as comfort level increases
Time Pass: emotional blackmailed physical intimacy – making it the yardstick of comfort level (the most dangerous one, don’t EVER fall for it)
These are the basic indicators...else every word he utters and every move he makes can be measured -observed and judged...so when it is a new relationship, please keep you eyes, ears, mind and GUT feelings' switch open ....to avoid getting miserably hurt...