Monday, May 21, 2012

Live FREE


We all knowingly sometimes and unknowingly most times, give shelter to a lethal thing in our minds & hearts... It takes the better off us and makes us feel miserable all the time..."GRUDGE"!


We don't really realize it but its only us who creates it...we don't really know it but its only us who can destroy it... Coz nothing apart from the ever so complex human mind coupled with emotions that have had a burnt, can create something as dangerous as grudge...


Very recently I realized that if we really wanna be happy, we need to cleanse our system, our inner system off of all evils and devils that have kept poking us at unwanted places and times...


When we are deeply hurt by someone's words / actions / behaviour .. that's when we let grudge take over our heads & hearts... It crawls within every part of us making us feel more victimized and more guilty than the wrong doer...


Getting rid of your grudge is not easy and not many wanna do it either coz the process takes a lot of courage and of course you need to leave aside your ego and taste the bitter side of the story, for a while, which might linger sometimes... But, don't we get a cavity filled tooth either treated or removed?


This is the same... its like living free...like unloading the unwanted things, shedding the rusted parts and leaving them behind to lead a lighter life -- a happier life... There was this person who hurt me real bad...the kind of behaviour that person posed wasn't something I could tolerate... and things got very messed up! For nearly 6 long months I held an ugly grudge against that person, unknowingly for the most time though....but one day when i realized, that this miserable killing feeling is nothing but my grudge, i so wanted to get over with it... so i decided to meet that person... sounds easy but i had to gather a lot of courage to call and ask to meet. Actually meet, talk without letting the bitterness flow or show...hug and say a goodbye dearly wishing good for the other person....


But the feeling i then had was so amazing...as if someone took away the curse that was spelled on me...
Today even if i remember that person or the good and the bad moments we had spent together, it doesnt kill me...it comes and goes away like a passing thought...but this one made me realize something very vital and taught me a lesson i ought not forget, never hold a Grudge against anyone...it does more bad to you than to the other person and seriously, its not worth it....no one is worth so much .... NO ONE!!!!



LIVE FREE ---- LIFE IS JUST ONCE --- AT LEAST AS FAR AS WE KNOW!!!!!

4 comments:

  1. Grudges seldom dwell- that's something I say & believe in.

    It's the outcome of a bad memory/doing, which we can totally control. I understand the chaos in our mind & heart when we feel this strong grudge toward a person, but the calm after forgiving or letting go is so much better.

    Gosh GRUDGE is a bad monster :P . I don't like it :)

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    1. True! its in our hands but sometimes, when the hurt is too deep, we dont realize, only we can kill it...

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